Sunday, June 26, 2016

Disney World 2016



In May we went to Disney World for a few days. It was such a special trip. Not only was it Olivia's first trip, but we were able to meet another family that was going for a Make A Wish trip. We have been so excited to meet them!

It was very hot, but we made it through the day. We were soaked in sweat by the time we got on the bus to head back to our hotel. You should wear as little clothes as possible in the warmer months when traveling there. Tank top, shorts, comfy shoes, hat, and definitely take advantage of the water rides. We purchased a fan for Olivia's stroller before our trip and also a misting fan. That helped a lot when we needed to cool off some.

We live an hour and half away from Disney, so its an easy drive for us. When we had made the decision on Disney we weren't sure where to begin. A friend of mine shared that she used a Disney Vacation Planner. She was super helpful! I just spoke with her and gave her the details of our trip and she got back to me with the rates. Once we made our decisions, she set it all up.

We were able to get a third park day for free, so we made sure to drive down a little earlier on our first day. Once we got to our hotel and unpacked everything, we headed out to Animal Kingdom. We stayed at The Port Orleans Riverside hotel. The hotel was nice, but we knew since we would just be sleeping there that we didn't need anything super extravagant. Our only concern was that it had a mini fridge in the room for Olivia's medications. It was so nice not having to drive anywhere there since we were staying at a Disney Resort. We rode the bus to and from all of the parks and only drove the night we went to Disney Springs.


You can't tell in the photo, but it was SO hot! We saw the Finding Nemo show and rode some rides at The Animal Kingdom. It was Olivia's first time riding any kind of ride and she was fearless! We loved the safari ride. She got to see all kinds of animals and enjoyed the ride too. In between doing the safari ride and playing in the bone yard, we met up with The Rex family. It was so incredible! I'm usually pretty shy, but it was like we had known them forever. Olivia and Brooklyn were instant besties. We've been waiting to meet them since last year when they came over to the states for Brooklyn's medical care.

After the park we went back to the hotel and napped. The best part of staying at a disney resort is being able to go back for NAPS, especially if you have a little one. We met The Rex's for dinner and to celebrate Sam's birthday.  Dinner was at The Boathouse and it was oh, so yummy!

We went to Magic Kingdom on Wednesday. We picked Magic Kingdom that day so that we could spend all day, go back to the hotel for naps, and then go back to the park for dinner and fireworks. I've been to Magic Kingdom before, but it's so different when you go with a little lady who loves every disney princess there is. I would say Olivia enjoyed herself, but the best part for us was just seeing how excited she got when she got to meet a character or on the rides. Hands down, best part!!


The fireworks show was seriously amazing! Olivia hated fireworks last year and really enjoyed these. I'm sure it had something to do with the awesome company we had with us, but she wasn't scared at all. She met Anna and Elsa and rode the teacups and loved it. We realized after all of her character interactions, that she does better meeting characters in full costume. If she could see their face, she wasn't a fan. Her meet and greet with Anna and Elsa didn't go as well as we thought it would. Brooklyn loved it though and even danced with them :)


Best Day Ever!
Our last day was spent at Hollywood Studios. There was so much Star Wars and Toy Story stuff there. Olivia was in heaven. Not to mention she got to meet all of her favorite disney characters. She would get so impatient waiting in line though. Maybe she will be better with that the next time we go back. We were pretty exhausted though because we didn't leave Magic Kingdom until around 1:00 am. Dannie's proudest moment at Hollywood Studios was when Livi used the force on one of the Storm Troopers. I wonder who taught her that?


This was such a sad day for us because we had to say our goodbyes. The ladies spent some time together with the littles while the boys rode Tower Of Terror. The entire trip Brooklyn and Olivia were holding hands and running around playing and if they weren't together, they spent their time figuring out how to jump out of their strollers so they could be together. We could have met them anywhere honestly as long as they could have been together. The princesses were just a bonus.

A Sam selfie :)

The girls playing with their princesses.



Olivia didn't want to let go of her hand. 

Meeting Doc McStuffins

<3


Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Brooklyn's SJIA Story


I've been wanting to tell Brooklyn's story for awhile, but every time I get close to working on it, I get nervous. It's not OUR story, so I get scared that I might miss something or tell it wrong. You might notice Brooklyn's story is much like Olivia's story, but it clearly has it's differences.

Brooklyn is currently 3 years old. She is a very spunky little girl that loves playing outside and Sophia The First. They are currently staying with her grandfather in Texas. Brooklyn receives care in Dallas which is an hour drive from their current residence. Brooklyn was recently approved for Make A Wish and they will be making a trip to Disney in a few months so Brooklyn can meet Sophia. We also get to meet them for the first time since they will be an hour and half away from us!! :)

I first met Brooklyn's mom, Samantha, through another mom who's daughter had HLH (Hemophagocytic Lymphohistiocytosis) At the time we were both waiting on genetic testing to come for HLH. The Rex family was living in Durban, South Africa then and had been traveling to Cape Town, South Africa for most of Brooklyn's care. Not only was it amazing to be able to speak to someone who knew what we had been going through, but we also looked to each other for support. Just goes to show how awesome social media is that you can meet someone so far away and end up finding a best friend.

Brooklyn was first hospitalized in April 2014. It all started with a rash and a fever. Her rash would come and go and get worse at night. Her fever, however, lasted for about a month. Medicine eventually would not even keep it down. She was tested for everything and was even first treated for Kawasaki Disease. When her body stopped responding to the medications for that, her doctor recommended testing for HLH. Testing for that included a Bone Marrow Biopsy and a Lymph node Biopsy. Testing for that came back positive for Macrophage involvement. Researching further, they came across Juvenile Arthritis. Through both of those they were able to find out about Macrophage Activation Syndrome (MAS). MAS is very serious and can cause life-threatening issues if not treated. Since there was not a physician in their area that had dealt with any of the mentioned diseases, they made a decision to fly to Cape Town to be evaluated.

Once they arrived in Cape Town and Brooklyn was evaluated by the pediatric rhuematologist, he said she had the worst case of Systemic Juvenile Arthritis he had seen yet. SJIA isn't something that just goes away, there is no cure. She was started on Methrotrexate, which is a form of chemotherapy, as well as, high-dose steroids and Cyclosporine (which helps with the MAS.) They had also spoke about starting her on a biologic. At the time, they discussed Kineret, which is a daily injection. This specific drug would cost them around $4,000 a month. Because Brooklyn needed this medication to survive, they made the choice to put on her this drug and do whatever was possible to have her treated. Since this medication is not something they could get in South Africa, it was shipped to them from the UK. They ended up taking her off of methotrexate pending genetic testing.

Fast forward a few months later, Brooklyn had been doing well up until she woke one morning with joint pain. She had also began getting rashes almost daily. They were under the impression that Kineret was no longer working for her. Her rheumatologist decided it would be best if she try an infusion called Actemra. Since this medication had to be administered every two weeks, their only choice was to move to Cape Town temporarily. [Olivia had been put on Actemra also when she left the hospital] Brooklyn had been doing well on Actemra, but was due for her third dose. Unfortunately, this medication caused her to have an anaphylactic reaction during this appointment. There was another medication she could try, but it wasn't something that was easy to be shipped to South Africa and Brooklyn didn't meet the age requirements for it yet. Their only option was for Brooklyn to start Kineret again and raise the dose of that and her other medications.


They had spoke to Brooklyn's grandfather a few times regarding possibly coming to the United States for care. It was clear that she was not getting the medical care she needed in South Africa anymore. Unfortunately, all of Sam's family and some of Darryn's live in SA, so that meant leaving them for awhile. But, when they found out Brooklyn was eligible for a consultation at Cincinnati Children's hospital that persuaded them to try it out.

After arriving in Texas, they made appointments with doctors in Cincinnati and tried to find somewhere to stay while being up there. Brooklyn was seen by a nutritionist, as well as, physicians from hematology and rheumatology.  She had labs done and also genetic testing done by them. After running out of funds to stay there and getting an estimate of how much it would cost to stay there for care, they packed up and went back to Texas. They were still waiting on genetic testing results. A few weeks after being back in Texas they received results and it showed Brooklyn didn't have any genetic mutations for HLH. With that being said, Her diagnosis would then be Systemic Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis with complications of MAS.

Brooklyn started Methrotrexate once again, but was weaned off of cyclosporine and steroids. Brooklyn has been doing better, but every day is a struggle because her medications suppress her immune system. She can't go out and play like other kids. They have the constant worry about her getting germs and becoming sick all the time.


They are really struggling financially when it comes to household items such as cleaning supplies, diapers, wipes, and groceries. They don't have their own car so they have to borrow family members whenever they need to run errands or go to appointments. It's been vey rough adapting to living here and not working. They are here on a visitor visa which has to be re-applied for every 6 month's. They have to re-apply through their attorney that is here. They pay an additional $2,500 a year for that service. They are also still paying for Health-Aid back in SA because they aren't sure when they would have to go back. I have contacted a few local groups here in the US, but haven't been successful in getting any assistance for them which just breaks my heart. I was able to reach out to a sweet photographer in their area and she took some recent photos of them. [YAY!] If you have any ideas or if you know someone in the Dallas area that would like to help fundraise for them, please let me know. Also, if you'd like to send them anything, I can help you get in touch with them.

Here are some links to their pages:
Facebook: facebook.com/hopeforbrooklyn
Website: Brooklynrex.com
GoFundMe: gofundme.com/hopeforbrooklynrex (The money shown in the amount raised is not the amount they currently have. It does not reflect what has already been used)












Monday, February 1, 2016

Olivia's 2nd Birthday


Well, we ended Olivia's birthday watching Frozen again. I can't tell you how many times we watch that movie. We've also tried to limit the amount of Frozen items that come home with us, but Olivia really loves Anna and Olaf. It's hard to say no sometimes. I hope Olivia enjoyed her birthday. We started the day off playing with balloons. We thought it would be fun to cover our bedroom floor with them and surprise her when she woke up. I saw her peak over the edge of her bed and smile. She got down and started throwing them around and jumping up and down. Eventually she asked me to get down with her and play. After that my plan was to make her some birthday waffles with sprinkles, however, when I added the sprinkles it just turned the batter purple. They still tasted delicious though.


We tried to lay down around 11 for a nap, but someone did not want to sleep. We had already discussed with her that we were going to Target, so of course that's all she wanted to talk about. We picked up a toddler bed there for her and were able to use a $10 off coupon. I spent Friday trying to put it together. Big mistake that was because I ended up putting the headboard on backwards. Dannie helped me turn it around when he got home since I had spent most of my day working on it. We need to make an Ikea trip so we can get a few more things to finish her room. She got a Rapunzel doll from her friend, Brooklyn. She hasn't put her down all weekend.


We had a small birthday get together on Sunday with family and friend's. The theme for her party this year was OLAF! It was a hard choice since she's crazy about so many Disney characters at the moment. I made sure not to go overboard with making decorations this year. It's a lot easier and stress free to purchase it in a store vs. searching for it all online. She had a blast and got to play with her cousin Korben.


We took a picture of Olivia in the same spot as last year and it's crazy how different she looks. Last year she was still on high dose steroids, so she was puffy. She looks so grown up in this years picture. We plan on taking a picture of her each year on her birthday so we can compare them. It'll be nice to be able to give her all of them when she's older.




Saturday, January 23, 2016

Our Life Lately

Well, I'm BACK! I've been wanting to post for awhile, but I just can't seem to find the time. If your wondering what we have been up to lately, we have just been living life. I started more of a routine around the first of the year with getting up early and working out. It really works well and I feel much more accomplished midway through my day. I have so much energy! If you haven't tried starting your day before the sun comes up you should. I HAVE missed a few days though, I can't say I've made every day count. This is usually how it goes though when I do get up early.

6:30 am - Get up, brush my teeth, and put on shorts and tank top. Workout for 30 minutes.

7:00 am- Get Dannie's work clothes ironed and his lunch made.

7:30 am- Take out Olivia's injection so it can get to room temperature and start some coffee.

7:45 am- Make sure Dannie is awake and start breakfast for us all.

8:00 am- Wake up Olivia. This usually takes a few minutes because she's not a morning person.

8:30 am- We give Olivia her oral meds and injection after she finishes eating.

9:00 am- Dannie leaves for work (sometimes sooner) and I usually put some cartoons on for Olivia so I can wash the dishes and straighten up the rest of the house.

10:00 am - 11:00 am- Play with Olivia or sometimes give her a bath. Most days the house is clean by 10:30.

11:30 am- Lay Olivia down for a nap. (I try at least..she's been fighting all naps lately)

I don't ever plan our afternoons unless we are running errands or have something else to do. Once we eat breakfast and she gets her first nap in we pretty much do whatever. It would be nice if I could get into the habit of having dinner ready before Dannie gets home, but let's just be honest..that may never happen. If your curious about the workout I've been doing, it is T25 Focus. It's great because it's only 25 minutes!! I've also been walking/running on the treadmill some evenings. I've lost a few inches here and there, but last week I had a little set back with a kidney stone and some stomach issues. Hoping to get back into it on Monday. I'll be starting week 4.


Olivia turns TWO this week! I can't believe we will have a two year old running around. It makes me sad and scared. She talks SO MUCH and is just blowing us away with the things she's learned. We are really struggling with nap time lately. I knew that one day she would go down to one nap a day. I guess I was just hoping it wouldn't be for awhile. She usually always gets a first nap as long as we're home, but she will fight the second nap. I'll miss her second nap because that's when I would nap with her.


We are planning a pretty small get together for her birthday. Same people as last year :) I started out wanting it to be Curious George themed, but when I thought about it and how hard it was going to be to find everything, I changed my mind. So, Olaf it is! I was able to pick up some stuff up at Target, but a lot of it was 50% off at The Party Store. We had talked about renting a pavilion at the park thats close to us, but the weather has been crazy here lately. It's 90 degrees one day and 40 the next. I am pretty excited about making her some birthday waffles and putting some balloons in her room when she wakes up on her birthday.


Other than preparing for Olivia's birthday, I turned t-h-i-r-t-y on the 8th. Can't say I was happy about it. However, I was happy about getting my hair done and covering up all the gray. Ek! On my birthday I was surprised by Dannie, Marcella, and Will with a night at Painting with a Twist. My mom also took us to lunch and watched Olivia while we painted. We had lots of fun! I've been wanting to do it for awhile, but we just never planned it. Wine, painting, and friends equals a good time.

Can't wait to show you pictures from Olivia's birthday! :)

Monday, November 9, 2015

October Festivities!

Here are some photos from our October adventures.


I just love the trees in Micanopy and McIntosh. It has to be one of my favorite parts of the town. We didn't end up purchasing anything at the festival in McIntosh except food and a Peppa Pig hairbow for Olivia. Lemonade, hot dogs, and fried pickles. It definitely wasn't a healthy day, but we had fun and the weather was beautiful.

The weekend after the McIntosh festival was the Micanopy one. The town there is even cuter and is filled with adorable little historic houses. Let's see..we stuffed our face with funnel cake, lemonade, gyro's, and arepas. I did purchase an old windowpane though for $20. I'll have to repaint it, but, I want to hang it in our living room.


Olivia had fun and enjoyed the family. She probably felt like she was at a dog zoo because so people take their dogs to the festival. She even saw goats and a pig :)


We usually take a big blanket to lay out under the trees so we can all eat together :)

I just love these two below. They were both rocking their arthritis shirts at the McIntosh festival. I made Olivia's shirt, but I ordered the Cure Arthritis one from for just $15. They also have some bracelets, some racing shirts, and a big pack that comes with a shirt, buttons, posters, bracelets, stickers, and a bumper sticker. That is the way to go to raise awareness :)


We love us some QUILTS! :)



We took Olivia to her first "Trunk or Treat" on the Friday before Halloween. She was adorable! She cracked us up because she was pretty confused at first about what to do. Once she realized she was having candy put into her bucket though she would walk up to the vendors on her own. She even said "Trick or treat" a few times before we got there, but she didn't say much once we were there. She was too busy checking out other kids, it was loud, and she was just excited they were giving her candy! Most of the candy wasn't toddler friendly, so she probably had one piece. We just wanted to see how she would do really. Isn't she the cutest little monkey?


Friday, October 16, 2015

Pickin Patch 2015

We recently took a trip to the pumpkin patch. The WHOLE family was able to make it!




The weather was p-e-r-f-e-c-t! It could have been about 10 degrees cooler, but other than that it was sunny skies. We took a ton of pictures. People probably thought we were crazy, but I can't wait to show Olivia pictures from our trips when she is older. There was a kid maze made out of hay. Her and Levi made it out before Gibson. We all enjoyed the tunnel made from gords because it was cooler in there. The kids LOVED the slide made from a big mountain of hay. Poor Olivia cried when we pulled her away.



Aren't the best photos candid ones? Olivia appears to be dancing, Gibson was on his way to sit next to her, and Levi was peeking at Granny & G-pa.


Three little munchkins! Haha. Check out Levi's scrunchy face in the bottom left photo. 

Sisters! <3

The sunflowers are always my favorite part, but there weren't too many left when we went. They are only usually bloom the first few weeks the pumpkin patch is open. 

I swear these two cuties have their own language. Olivia was standing next to him just babbling away about a little girl that walked up to her. 



Corn maze fun with my little mini me. How adorable are those boots and pumpkin hair bows

Silly girl! Yelling at the people walking by. 


Another family photo with everyone looking AND Gibson showing us his muscles.

My loves! We have a photo like this from last year. I think we will take one every year that we go ;)

This photo will have to be taken each year too so we can see how the babies have grown. The top photo is from last year. <3







Friday, September 18, 2015

Weekly recap

The past few days have flown by for me since we have been pretty busy. I like staying busy, so it doesn't phase me at all. We've actually done so much within the last week that I can't remember what we did on what day. I'll blame the mom brain.

Last week Livi dealt with a flare. I think we took her to the doctor on Tuesday and she was able to get IV steroids. She was feeling better by the time we got home and her rash was gone. Luckily, we didn't have to raise any of her home meds. We are currently waiting for the results of her c-diff test though. It would be awesome if she didn't have to be put back on antibiotics and results are negative. But, we have noticed a few of her previous symptoms that she had before with it.



Olivia and I made a trip to Target last week. I could seriously live there. I'm not sure what it is about that place that is so calming, but it's just a lovely place. I really TRY not to purchase anything either but we all know that's not possible.


We had an ice cream date Friday night. There is a Twistee Treat in town and we LOVE it! Olivia was napping when we got there, but we decided to wake her so we could share our ice cream. I got a banana split and Dannie got his usual, a mint chocolate chip milkshake.

The weather has been a tiny bit cooler in the evenin making bearable to do stuff outside. So, we were able to sit in the back of Dannie's truck and enjoy our ice cream. Olivia enjoyed it and that's all that matters!


Saturday we had a lazy day at home. I cleaned the house up a bit and we played with Livi. We were even able to get a bit of outside play time in. Woo hoo! I painted Olivia's nails and she loved that. If only she would hold still for me to get a picture of them though. She is so fun at this age!

Sunday was grandparents day. We met my parents at Lake Sumter Landing for dinner and to walk around. Dinner was delicious. Our eyes ended up being bigger than our stomachs though. Olivia played in some bubbles and ran around on the docks. The weather was once again awesome and there was a beautiful sunset!

Monday, Olivia had an eye appointment. We rushed out of the house because we needed to run a quick errand before and didn't eat, so we were starving. She hates seeing the eye doctor. She always cries and I have no clue how he sees anything, but he says he does. No inflammation in her eyes. Lunch afterwards which made us sleepy. So, it was nap time once we did got home. Tuesday, we went to visit my mom. Olivia always has fun over there and is exhausted once she gets home.

Last night we decided to load up and take Livi to Barnes and Noble. She yelled "Books and wow" the whole time. She enjoyed the train table and always loves the stuffed animals. There were a few books she was interested in, but she mainly enjoys being able to run around. This morning we were out of the house by 10 and went to the park for a bit. I was able to walk the whole park. I want to try and do that a few days out of the week. Again, nice weather and gorgeous flowers. Olivia spent her time in the stroller watching butterflies and birds. We stopped by Old Navy afterwards and then came home.

Grandparents Day 2015
Wearing her Curious George
Barnes and Noble fun
Yoga fun :)
A morning at the park
Outside fun :)